Hello! This Tuesday 6pm UK session is a chance to plug into the Mindsprings methods for soothing the nervous system and unpicking the mechanisms of anxiety. We'll be practicing body-based techniques, breathworks and energy psychology each week. There'll be clear instruction each session so anyone can join - even (or especially) complete beginners. We practice for about 30 minutes and then have some time to talk and discuss what's going on. Many people find sharing their anxiety a great boon. Come along and finally do something about your shredded nerves.

A 45-minute conversation with Alistair to explore new aspects of a problem or issue that has been snaring you.

Hi everyone! Make a date to practice with the Mindsprings gang every Monday morning at 8am UK time. This is a chance to use the mind-cleaning Beingfulness practice to steady our awareness, see all the phenomena that are making up our experience and learn to love them! There'll be clear instruction each session so anyone can join - even (or especially) complete beginners. We practice for about 30 minutes and then have some time to talk and discuss what's going on. It's a lovely communal way to start the week.

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Guilty Feelings - a Community Enquiry by Alistair/ Mindsprings Guilt is one of those feelings that almost everyone recognises but very few people examine closely. But it can be corrosive, eating away at our well being and resisting analysis. I've been thinking about guilt a lot recently, and I suspect it's more complex — and more varied — than it first appears. I'd love your help exploring it. This isn't a formal survey — it's an invitation to look honestly at your experience of 'guilt-ish' feelings, and your answers will genuinely shape how I teach and write about this. There are no right answers. Take as much space as you need. And thank you in advance! Your name (optional) Email (optional — only if you'd like to hear what we find) Part One: The raw experience 1. When do you tend to feel guilty? Are there particular relationships, situations, or times that bring it up? Try to be specific — a particular person, a recurring situation, a time of day or week. 2. How does guilt show up for you — in the body, in the mind, in your behaviour? Is it a thought, a physical sensation, something you notice in how you act? Or something harder to locate? 3. How long does it tend to last, and what — if anything — makes it shift? Does it pass on its own? Does doing something help? Or does it tend to linger regardless? 4. Who is it usually directed toward? A particular person or group? Yourself? Something more diffuse — a sense of having let life, or your own values, down? Part Two: Looking more closely The next questions invite a little more reflection. You might find that guilt isn't one single thing — that there are different flavours of it, or that some instances feel quite different from others. 5. Have you ever felt a guilt that seemed entirely appropriate — where you'd genuinely done something wrong, felt bad about it, and found a way to make amends or repair the relationship? What was that like, and how did it resolve? 6. Have you noticed a guilt that persisted long after any reasonable amends had been made? Something that felt more like a permanent condition than a response to a specific event — and that no apology in the present could quite reach? 7. Have you ever felt exposed or unmasked — caught being less than the person you thought you were? Not 'I did something wrong' but 'something about me has been revealed'. This might show up as an urge to explain, defend, or deflect — or a hot feeling of wanting to disappear. Part Three: Language and nuance 8. When you use the word 'guilt', what do you actually mean? Does it capture one feeling, or several that got the same name? Are there other words that feel more precise — shame, remorse, regret, embarrassment? Do these feel meaningfully different, or roughly interchangeable? 9. How much does guilt — in whatever form — affect your daily life? (1 = barely at all, 5 = a significant and persistent presence) Anything you'd want to add about that rating? Finally: Is there anything about guilt, shame, or remorse that these questions didn't quite reach — something that feels important to you that you'd want to say? Thank you! I really appreciate you taking the time to probe this sensitive subject here. I hope that our mutual exploration will be of benefit to beings. All best, Alistair Share your reflections

Resources for LGBTQ+ and Allies in the Legal Profession This is a collection of resources and guided practices following Alistair's presentation 'Rainbows Brighten the Workplace'. Please feel free to browse and do get in touch in you have any questions. Excellent Online Resources https://pinktherapy.com/resources/ https://genderedintelligence.co.uk/ https://switchboard.lgbt/ https://www.consortium.lgbt/about-us/ https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/lgbtqia-mental-health/useful-contacts/ https://www.lawcare.org.uk/get-information/articles/lgbtq-lawyers/#links Four Exercises to Break the Stress Spiral THE DECOMPRESSION BREATH THE EYE STRETCH THE CALM POINT THE HA! Principles of Allyship don’t be prejudiced take action against discrimination have humility re. LGBTQ+ issues Four Thoughts Your Human Life is Precious It is Also Fleeting What You Do Matters Place Your Energy Wisely

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